Dear Lesley,

Can you tell me what to do with my life? ‘Cause I can’t. MORE»

Dear Barf,

Do all balls smell the same, or do I not have enough up close and personal encounters with balls to make a sound judgment? MORE»

When Lesley appeared in the tabloids next to Chloe, some of you asked, “What does she do?” implying she’s a trust fund kid. This is what she does. By the way, what is with this trust fund myth? MORE»

Dear Barf,

When is it okay to cheat? I have a friend who’s married and she says, “Unless you’re married, it doesn’t count.” She says if she could go back in time she would have cheated way more before marriage because after that, it’s off the books. Is that true? What if you’re living with the guy? MORE»

Lesley brought some pals down to Miami and the paps went berserk. MORE»

So I think at the end of your book, you were talking about gaining weight in rehab, how much it sucked, and how you’ve lost weight now. I am having major issues right now with the 30 plus pounds I gained, most of which have to do with beer and laziness — but even though I have cut those things out (wine and exercising), I still cant lose weight. MORE»